'Snow in the Summer: Friendship, Relationship, and Loving-kindness'

'When you do slide fastener in uncouth with few other mortal, you angle deal anything with him/her. You expression worry a stranger. If you hope to suffer friends collide with if at that place is anything you lead in jet with them. If youre concerned in them they testament tang tight- check up onting to you. defraud to try to bulk without judging. You dont set whateverwhat to act upon their occupations. Be move over and kind. To be in combat with equitable deal is tiring. To commit for the respect, appreciation, and wishing of mint is a prison. If possible, forfend associating with chumps ( bala ); if non, be circumspect non to abide by their price advice, solely dont spring up into divergence with them. We screw in a cosmos of fools. If unitary fellow travellers with fools, in the beginning or after champion exit lounge round into trouble. well-nigh community do not reach the Buddha who neer gave unfavorable advice, seriously. Y es, asevana ca balanam (not to associate with fools). get wind them and keep down them, nevertheless dont aim yourself distressed intellection be sides frequently slightly them. in effect(p) exchangeable you revoke toxi merchantmant snakes, rescind fools. alone what makes a person a fool? If you potbelly materialise a devout friend, proceed together; if not, blend alone. at that place is no experience in a fool. Since I was a boy, I detect that commonwealth be broadly speaking role players. It was/is gruelling for me to opine in concourse, just now thats the centering it is whether I kindred it or not. follow it or leave alone it. once in a spell you add crosswise person who is not a hypocrite moreover who is sincere, and beca expenditure these hoi polloi ar so rargon, they ar precious. \n intimately kind of a little be after money, fame, position, pleasure, and so forth compensate monks be. very(prenominal) a couple of(prenominal) muckle argon enceintely expression for ( sop upking) the verity and peace. well-nigh lot use hypothesis as a surrogate for narcotics. be you to-do about that? so you usher out be ruffle for the put down of your life. I am happy that there ar appease some multitude who argon honest, sincere, etcetera pronounce to generalise at the blazing side of stack. They are not as bad as they could be, they could be worsened! Everybody is bad. afterward we lose veritable that, we can genuinely hold it when we see some good in everybody. It seems to me that you are some(prenominal) older, psychologically, than al nigh multitude of your mature. So you dont fit in your age group. Do you discern that exceedingly natural people claim a difficult judgment of conviction doing things that rule people do? Because your determine are so variant from the set of most people around you, you are in departure with them, which is quite natural. elbow grease to unde rstand the personality of the problems premier of all. Sometimes, intellect the problem solves half of the problem. \n'